Why?

Hehe. Ever since I was young, I have lots of 'why' questions. There were moments where my parents even suggested me to become a lawyer. So that I could ask questions up until people don't know what to reply anymore. LOL. I guess those were just one of the traits of generation Y huh? 

Anyway, the why of today is to clarify the name of the blog: Reinvention of The Self. Basically, I believe in 'there's always room for improvement'. However, quite recently, a lot of people( some who are close to me) just kinda put me in a spot that leave me feeling disappointed. They are nice, we are close, we're happy and stuff,  but the thing is, they lie. Why? I don't know. I think some lie because they just don't know and can't face to tell the truth, some for the sake of feeling good with their made up stories, some of which I don't know why. 

I came up with reinvention of the self to remind myself that I shouldn't sweat the small stuff. I shouldn't put emphasis on what others do that I couldn't explain, I shouldn't waste all these energies being mad about something so meaningless. What I could do is to put things behind me, be at peace to whatever people do to me, and try to my best to be nice towards them regardless of what they did. I know for a fact that " what you give, you get back'. However, I'm in no position to judge or to counter-attack. I wanna focus on the good things, and let God decides the rest. I really am happy, and I don't need some meaningless habit of certain others disrupt  that peace of mind. Let's just all be nice to one another. I'm reinventing myself to accepting the good and let go of the bad. I've always been doing this before as well,but I wanna try harder, and I wanna be better. I know that if you have a good heart, you'll be at ease and bliss all the time. 

It is never to late to reinvent yourself=D. Those who fail to improve are those who lose.